It’s easy to get stuck in a pattern. In fact, I find that one of the hardest things in life to break is a routine. Think about it. Routine is the order in which you get ready in the morning. The route you take to work. The way you walk through the grocery store.
These are little things that almost never change – and they make up a lifetime.
That’s because, the older we get the harder it becomes to break routine.
Did you know that one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is continuous change?
I find that it is when we get stuck in the day-to-day way of doing things that we start to feel like our lives are mundane or they’re simply passing us by. Be it due to fear or an unwillingness to change, or some other big reason – we become a spectator in our own life.
And yet, we’re still hoping that something extraordinary will happen to us.
Will happen. TO us.
We’re passive. Accommodating. Floating along, and believing that things will play out how they’re supposed to.
We wish it – but what do we do during our life to accommodate that wish?
The answer? Not much. We’re too stuck in our routines. We’re overly distracted by what we need to do to survive. How much we need to work to pay the bills. How many social activities we have this week. How we can’t miss practice.
Before we know it, we’re sixty, watching our kids graduate, wondering where the hell the time has gone.
But being sixty or seventy or eighty doesn’t mean it’s too late to shake up your life.
It’s just a change in routine.
And it’s that change of routine – that big, scary change of which you don’t know the outcome – that feeds us. Sure you can make little tweaks in your existing routine. Cram in a yoga class or a vacation into your life where it fits. But those small tweaks won’t result in big changes. They won’t bring about that big experience or event – at least, not in a timely manner.
What will allow you to make the great strides is big change.
Quit trying to stuff small changes into your current routine.
Shake up your routine. Change it. Try it out. Change it again.
Or be on your deathbed, at any age, and wishing you hadn’t wasted life waiting for permission to live how you want.
It isn’t about luck. It’s about working and changing and growing and connecting.
It’s about trying one thing every day that scares you.
And it feels good.